Life After Divorce

A man in church continues to remind me to have a loving relationship with my ex-husband now and in the future. Since there is no since living in the past, this is the right thing to do. I have felt all the emotions that come with divorce and continue to work through them. Even harder than dealing with anger and resentment is facing personal responsibilty for what happened. It's scary talking to people who are divorcing or past tense..to watch their faces as I open my mouth and admit the truth of my responsibility in the break up. Gotta do it though or else I don't see how I can feel lovely again or allow someone to love me again. It's up to me to do better, to be as honest and truthful as I can in my relationships.